The male adolescent involved with a pederast becomes an adult
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longitudinal study of nine castes is reported where the
adolescent was engaged after puberty in sexual activity with an adult
male.
Observations are reported in the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th decades after the
teenage
years in these cases. The subjects were drawn from a pool of 200 similar
cases
and are the cases where the most data are available.
Implications for professionals dealing with adolescent sexuality are
made. Gaps
between what is legally permitted and what is actual practice are
pointed out.
Need for further research and the areas for that research are implied. A
case
against premature labeling s made.[Introduction]
history men have had sexual relations with adolescent
boys. Occasionally, there is a sensational scandal but for the most part
such
relations take place without public awareness or the extent of the
practice or
the identities or the involved parties.
to Dorlands Medical Dictionary (1974), pederasty
means anal intercourse with a boy. The word pederast means
boy lover
from the Greek pais ("boy") and erastes ("lover").
Often the word has become synonymous with sodomist.
(1976) defines the pederast as any male over the age of
18 who is erotically attracted to boys between the age of puberty and
age 16.
The present paper will go beyond erotic attraction and define the
pederast as
over 18 who has actually engaged in sexual relations
with a younger post-pubescent male under the age or 16 which results
in sexual
climax for either one or both participants. This practice will have
extended
over a period of time of at least 1 year.
knowledge we have in this area stems from two sources.
studies have been made on prison populations (Gebhard
et al., 1967; Glueck, 1955). In these studies the pederast has been
arrested and
jailed, or the youths involved have been placed in correctional
institutions and
information is based on their recall.
second source is from opinions handed down from what
has been known or reputed to be known by authority figures in society.
Bernard
(1976) stales that there is very little research in the area, but many
theories
and opinions. As pederasty is a
subject and one that has long since been driven
underground in our society, it is natural that much of what we know
should come
from a confined population or from historical and philosophical
accounts.
only is the subject a very sensitive one, but it is
difficult to get accurate information from either the pederast or the
adolescent. In my experience the pederast, who is violating a law which
would
estrange him in his community, is most reluctant to discuss his
relationships
with young males, with older male friends, or even with professionals.
Adolescents themselves, according to Sorenson (1975),and from my own
experience,
are quite reluctant to divulge their sexual involvement with a male
older than
themselves outside of a trusted gay circle if they belong to such
circles.
search of the literature reveals little in the way of data
that would tell us what occurs in the later life of boys who get
involved with
older men. Little is recorded, for example, about their adaptation,
their sexual
orientation, or their later attitudes toward their homosexual history.
In fact,
such information is very difficult to secure. We know much more about
the men
who have been apprehended, arrested, and convicted for homosexual
offenses than
we do concerning the boys on whom the offense was committed.
is a report of a study of nine boys.
author observed them grow from puberty to manhood after they
had already had some sort of episodic involvement with a male older than
themselves. These cases were extracted from over 200 cases spanning a
30-year
period. They are the 9 cases where the most detailed follow-up in regard
to
sexual practices was possible.
and interviews were used where individuals could
be located. Attempts were made to contact the appropriate individuals in
all
cases. Staff and funds were unavailable to make the exhaustive search
necessary
to locate as many cases as desired.
cases occurred in populations referred from three widely
separated states, involving three different-sized school systems as well
as a
limited private practice. These 9 case were those where annual follow-up
was
possible. The 200 cases were drawn from a reservoir of approximate,
3,000 cases
of this age range brought to the attention of the author in the course
of 30
years as a psychologist dealing with school-age populations. Of the 200
cases,
no one was referred for sex offenses or through the courts. These 200
cases were
the cases where there was involvement of two males differing in ages as
defined.
Admittedly, the data are not complete on each of these cases, and they
are even
less complete on the cases not reported that made up the subject pool.
reported were those where it was possible to have at least
yearly contact with the person who was involved first as an adolescent.
Each was
first seen when he was an adolescent. Parental permission was secured to
discuss
sensitive subjects prior to initial contact. These cases represent a
sample with
an unknown bias in that we have been able to follow their
but there was little difference surrounding the
original contact in the less documented cases. We do not know how
representative
these cases are of the original 200.
histories were taken routinely in all adolescents referred,
irrespective of referral reason. It needs to be emphasized that no case
was
originally seen because of a sexual problem. Obviously, names are
fictitious,
and minor events have been changed so as to maintain maximum anonymity.
histories of nine adult males whose current ages range
from 25 to 46 years will be presented. Details of sexual relations with
the
adult males concerned will be given as related by those persons who were
adolescents at the time of first contact. The current follow-up data are
based
on observations, community reports, and personal interviews where
practical.Ronald
was referred at age 15 because of rapid mood swings,
unpredictability, and periods of depression. He was doing poorly in
school at
the time, was of low average ability, and was reading at about 1½ years
below
grade placement.
own report he had reached puberty between 12 and 13. He
had been introduced by two older brothers to mutual masturbation and
fellatio.
Toward the end of his 14th year he was doing yard work for a married,
childless
high school teacher. They became aware of mutual sexual attraction.
During the
following 4 years mutual masturbation and fellatio occurred at least
weekly
between the two. They became fond of each other, but no sexual relations
occurred after Ronald's 20th birthday.
is now 46 years of age. He has lost touch with the
teacher. He has a family of three children and holds a blue-collar
assembly line
position. He is buying his own home and seems to have the typical
problems of
the upper lower-class family man. He has had no law violation except
traffic. At
age 45, the age of last follow-up, he personally reported that he has
had no
desire for homosexual relations since age 20.Denver
was referred at age 13 for taking part in vandalism
directed toward a junior high school followed by running away from home.
He was
or high average ability and reading at grade level. He was quite
interested in
machinery and mechanics.
reached pubescence by age 14. He was introduced to mutual
masturbation at age 13 by peers, some of whom were more developed
sexually.
During his 11th year he began spending his spare time around a service
station,
where he became acquainted with a master mechanic who was then in his
early 40s,
married, and childless. The mechanic and Denver began engaging in
recreational
pursuits together. On a fishing trip, during a break on an island, they
began
talking about sex, which led to Denver's being fellated by the mechanic
and to
masturbation of the mechanic by Denver. For the next 5 years mutual
occurred two or three times per week. Sexual activity
with the mechanic ceased at about age 19, but a close relationship
continued to
exist until the mechanic's death.
is now 44 years of age. He was married and fathered two
sons. He and his first wife were divorced and he raised his boys. One
buy went
to college and the other boy to a technical school. Denver remarried and
has
been a valued mechanic with the sama company for 20 years. He has a
supervisory
position and believes that his relationship with his mechanic friend
helped him
reach his goals. He says he would have approved a similar relationship
for
either of his sons, had he become aware of such a situation. He reports
no
desire to have sex with males since approximately age 20.Eugene
was originally referred at age 13 because of a placement
problem. His father had an incurable disease, and his mother was
hospitalized as
a result or mental stress. He was of high ability, reading two grades
above
grade placement level. He was well coordinated and enjoyed outdoor
activities.
During the first few months of his placement he had the opportunity to
participate in a camping experience and came to the attention of the
camp
director.
reached pubescence between 12 and 13. He had been
sexually active since age 10, having had sexual relations with a boy 3
years
older. Their erotic activities included mutual masturbation, fellatio,
and anal
intercourse. During his first few months of placement he accompanied the
camp
director, a 34-year old physical educator, on an evening trip for
supplies. On
the return trip, in a sparsely populated area, Eugene requested that
they stop
so he could urinate. The physical education director joined him. It was a
moonlit night, and both noticed erections and physical attraction.
Mutual
fellatio was engaged in and continued to occur between the two through
the first
2 years of Eugene's marriage. However, during the last 4 or 5 years of
the
relationship, incidents were sporadic.
is now 42 years of age with a master's degree in a
substantive area. He was married at age 27 and is the father of one
daughter. He
and his wife had some marital problems which responded to counseling. He
is a
respected member of his community and reports no further homosexual
behavior
after about age 29. He admits that he occasionally sees an attractive
young male
and wonders what a sexual relationship would be like with that person.
He
declares that nothing but fantasy has occurred.August
was made because August's upper middle-class family was
concerned about his below average school grades. He was 14 at the time
of
referral. He was very bright, scoring two standard deviations above the
mean on
an individually administered intelligence test. He was reading at the
11th-grade
level, though his placement was 8th grade.
reached pubescence near the beginning of his 14th year
and shortly thereafter became sexually involved with a university
professor in
his late 30s who lived in the neighborhood. The professor was married
and had
one small daughter. The original episode occurred when August and the
professor
were riding around in a new development where lots had been laid out but
there
was yet no building. After talking about sex, they parked and engaged in
mutual
which became a weekly occurrence for the next 4 years.
Since August's parents were very involved socially and in the community,
August
spent much of his time at the professor's home. The professor's wife
also became
quite fond of August but knew nothing of the sexual relationship.
is now 32 years or age. He is married and has one child
of his own. He still maintains a close relationship with the professor
and his
family, though there have been no sexual episodes since August was 18
years of
age. August continues to regard the professor and his wife as parent
surrogates.
Living in widely separated parts or the country there are still visits,
phone
calls, and correspondence. August dropped out of college to go into the
family
business, where he has been most successful. He is a leader in many
community
activities in a large incorporated suburban district. August reports no
desires
to engage in homosexual activity but sees no harm in such engagements
between
mutually consenting persons beyond the age or puberty.James
was referred because or temper tantrums and short periods
of absence from home at age 13. He was of above average ability and was
reading
at a grade above placement. He was being raised by a divorced mother.
His father
had visiting privileges, but James was not close to his father.
was sexually precocious, having reached puberty at
approximately age 11. By age 12 he was a compulsive masturbator. He had
had
experience with mutual masturbation with peers and heterosexual activity
with a
female cousin and her friends. He seldom had less than two sexual
emissions per
day.
14 he and a favorite uncle, who was then in his early
40s, were discussing sex organs' size in the uncle's office after hours.
This
discussion led to his uncle fellating and him and he masturbating the
uncle. The
uncle was married with three children (two girls and one boy). This
relationship
continued off and on for the next 7 years. James also had sexual
experiences
with other males and females. His sexual activity continued at a high
level
until he reached the mid 20s.
is now 33 years of age. He was married at age 28. He has
one daughter and claims no extramarital affairs. He is a college
graduate and
has been very successful in his own business. In fact, he seems well on
his way
to becoming a very wealthy man. He still has a friendly relationship
with the
uncle and often has called upon him for business advice. He claims
marital
fidelity at the present time. He admits that he is frequently stimulated
by
attractive young women or by attractive young men, but that sexual
activity is
confined to marriage.Carl
was the result or disruptive behavior in a very
traditional classroom in the seventh grade. Carl was 13 at the time.
Behavior
was primarily mischievous annoying, and attention getting. He was the
youngest
in a very close-knit family with two older brothers and a sister. His
father was
quite authoritarian; he was also very proficient with all electrical,
mechanical, and building problems. His mother was warm and loving. He
was above
average in ability, reading above grade level, and showed very high
mechanical
aptitude. The family was quite religious, and Carl was very
conscientious in
performing the religious duties required of a youth of his age.
was relatively late reaching puberty since he was beyond
the middle of his 14th year before this occurred. Around the beginning
or his
15th year he went
a hunting trip with his father, his oldest brother, and a
32-year-old engineer who worked in his father's office. The engineer was
married
with two young children. While in a secluded duck blind the engineer and
Carl
began discussing sex, which led to mutual masturbation. From this time
until
Carl reached his 22nd birthday there were many sexual occurrences
between the
two, with mutual fellatio becoming preferred. When the engineer and his
family
were transferred to another city when Carl was 18, Carl made several
visits to
the engineer's family.
is now 33 years of age with two sons of his own. He was
married at age 27. Carl and his family still have contact with the
engineer and
his family and visit one another as often as possible. There have been
no sexual
relations with the engineer since Carl was 22. Carl claims no other
homosexual
relationships, nor does he have any desires. His sexual relations with
the
engineer were the only homosexual relations he claims to have
experienced. He
also claims no extramarital relationships. He is a graduate of a
university, a
young professional, and a staunch supporter of his church. Boyd
referral was made by his parents when Boyd was just
past 13 years of age for assessment and guidance. He was of slightly
above
average ability and reading above his eighth-grade placement level. He
was very
courteous, polite, and well groomed. There was every indication of
genuine
parental concern and a high level of respect for his parents on his
part.
approximately the age of pubescence, which had occurred
around the time he reached his 13th birthday, he had had his first
sexual
experience with a 28-year-old ministerial assistant. Boyd and his family
were
active in their church. Boyd was active in the youth groups. After one
of these
youth meetings Boyd had been given a ride home by the young ministerial
assistant who was in charge of youth activities. They took a lengthy way
home
and engaged in sexual talk, resulting in obvious erections. They
proceeded to
mutually masturbate. Eventually this led to regular sexual encounters
including
mutual fellatio and inter-crural intercourse. Boyd was initially quite
guilt-ridden in relating his sexual history, even indicating that he had
originally fantasized relations with the young minister and had perhaps
encouraged the subsequent events. Boyd stated that he had no other
homosexual
relationships nor heterosexual relationships until his marriage. His
sexual
relationship with the minister terminated when the minister was
transferred
after 4 years to a distant state.
is now 33 years of age, married since he was 26, and the
father of three children. He is a professional man with a master's
degree. He is
highly respected in his community and very well adjusted. He no longer
has any
contact with the minister. He expresses complete satisfaction with his
marital
sexual relations and has experienced no further desires for homosexual
relationships. His excellent relationships with his parents continue.
His case
does not fit the theorctical pattern for homosexual behavior.Burt
was originally referred as a 14-year-old who was already
one grade behind in school. He was reported to be difficult to control
when in
school and to be frequently truant. Burt was of avergee ability as
indicated on
an individually administered intelligence test and reading above grade
level
though he was
all subjects. He was breezy in manner but responded to
to treatment as an equal. He was the youngest son in a military service
family.
He had two older brothers and an older sister. His father was a heavy
weekend
drinker, authoritarian, and demanding. His mother was passive,
permissive, and
somewhat withdrawn.
reached pubescence al approximately age 13. He subsequently
engaged in mutual masturbation with peers, some or whom were slightly
older than
he. During one or his truancy escapades he learned that he could
hitch
rides and meet men who would offer money for sexual favors.
his 14th year he met an industrial representative who
took him to a motel. He liked this adult who was approximately 40 years
or age.
The man took Burt to dinner, bought him clothing, and gave him pocket
money.
They continued to meet many times, even after Burt married at the
age of
18. At age 20 Burt ceased to have contact with him, as the industrial
representative was transferred to a distant territory. Burt knew little
about
the man except that he was married and had three children.
is now 26 years of age, married, and the father of one
child. He did not finish school, dropping out after the 10th grade, but
he did
take a high school equivalency examination successfully. He reports no
further
homosexual activity nor any desires in that direction but some
extramarital
activity. His marriage is still intact. He has held a salesman's
position for a
period of 5 years that seems to provide for his family. He has not seen
the
industrial representative since the relationship ended.Jeff
was a 14-year-old referred as a result or his participation
in a serious case of school vandalism. He, with some peers, had broken
into a
junior high school, ransacked the principal's office, and used spray
paint to
spatter obscenities over walls throughout the school.
the youngest son of a career military serviceman. He had
a sister and two older brothers. His father was retired from service and
practicing a skilled trade. The mother worked in a clerical position and
obviously made the family decisions. Jeff had lived in three foreign
countries
including the one in which he was born. He was or above average ability
and
reading at grade placement level. He was more interested in status
within the
peer group than in doing well in school.
reported that as early as age 10 he had been participating
in sexual activities with older boys who were the sons of servicemen in
the last
country in which he had lived. He had returned to the United States at
age 13
and had become involved with a group or boys in mutual masturbatory
activities.
He learned through one of these boys of a street where men would pick up
boys
and pay them for sexual activities. While frequenting this street he met
a
50-year-old state legislator who was a lawyer in another town of the
state. For
the next 4 years he met this legislator in his hotel room on a weekly
basis
during sessions of the legislature and was compensated in money and
clothing.
Mutual fellatio was the preferred form of activity. Jeff was also
meeting other
men on this street and engaging in sex between meetings with the
legislator.
is now 25 years of age. He is married and has a 2-year-old
daughter. He no longer has conact with the legislator, who has retired
to
private law practice. Jeff holds a reasonably well paying white-collar
position,
having attended college for 2 years before dropping out to get married.
Interestingly enough, he ran for a political position at age 24 and
though
defeated, has plans for a political future. He has no interest in
homosexual
activity at this time, but there is some question as to his marital
fidelity.
these nine cases none of the adolescents identified
themselves as homosexuals. All the boys were Caucasian and, with one
exception,
of average to better than average intellectual ability. They all
developed into
adults with sexual patterns considered acceptable by the culture.
three cases the expected norm of society as far as sexual
behavior was concerned lasted into the 3rd decade and in another three
cases
lasted into the 4th decade.
appeared lo become a homosexual as a result of his rather
extensive experience with an adult male. It is important to note that
none of
these adolescents saw themselves as homosexuals. A personal interview in
1977
affirmed that none of them verbalized any homosexual desires.
pool there were 11 boys whose histories were fragmentary
who saw themselves as homosexuals, and during the brief period they were
followed they continued to engage in homosexual activity. It was
impossible to
keep track of these 11 men.
and Speisman (1977) are supported in their claim that
early adolescence is a period of practicing sex and that this practice
period
may take many forms. Our society has been rather quick to label
adolescents who
have engaged in sexual behavior as homosexuals. This labeling may be
quite
premature.
Turner, and Jerry (1964), who summarized many studies
dealing with pedophilia, concluded that in many instances there was a
fatherly
attitude on the part of the adult homosexuals who had been engaged.
cases cited in this study certainly bear out this
observation. In most instances in this study a very deep friendship
appeared to
develop to the extent that the adolescent sometimes selected the
vocation or a
closely related vocation of the adult male with whom he had sexual
relations.
adult apparently served as a model in areas other than
sexual behavior. Why the selectivity of modeling behavior? None of the
nine boys
reported coercion to engage in homosexual behavior on the part of the
adult.
Rather, it appeared that with the right circumstances (privacy, degree
of sexual
arousal, etc.). the first sexual relationship occurred as a result of
mutual
desires.
least three of the cases the boy was searching for just
such a relationship. The two boys, Burt and Jeff, who actually engaged
in
hustling did not appear to regard their relationships with the men
involved
differently than the other boys. On a socioeconomic scale their families
would
probably rate somewhat lower so that they did not have regular
allowances such
as Boyd, for example.
(1976) reports cases quite similar. The adults involved
were all Caucasians with skilled or professional occupations and better
than
average socioeconomic status in the community.
lay and professional persons have predicted dire
consequences as a result of the type of relationships described in this
account.
Laws are based on protecting the adolescent from an even greater crime
that
be committed to his person. Glueck's (19J55) final report
of convicted sexual criminals in New York indicates that homicide is
very rare
in homosexual pedophilic cases. In fact, only one case of homicide and a
case of
brutality were found. The sensational cases that make the news are the
rare
ones; cases like those cited in this study are probably more common.
observations support Rossman's (1976) statement that it is a
mistake to assume that boys who had experience with an older homosexual
will
eventually become homosexual or psychoneurotic or have more problems
than any
other male adolescent.
writing and revising existing laws governing sexual behavior
between members of the same sex much research needs to be accomplished
so that
the legal structure is in line with what actually happens in human
sexual
behavior.
present study all of the men and boys would have been law
violators in their respective states had they come to the attention of
law
enforcement agencies, in the cases in this study the intrusion of law
enforcement agencies would certainly have changed the cases as
presented,
probably introducing trauma with effects on families and persons that
would
certainly not have enhanced the quality of the eventual adjustment of
the
individuals involved.
the sparse data we have, we would have to conclude that in
sexual relationships between males beyond puberty where force is not
involved
many have no deleterious effects.
in this limited study there is very little
information concerning the adult males involved. From the boys' reports
these
men apparently took a paternalistic or teacher-like interest in the boys
to the
extent that the boys modeled aspects of the adults' behavior other than
the
sexual.
(1975) makes the statement that cultures that permit
sexual pleasures have far less violence than cultures that try to
restrict
sexual pressures, as our American culture with its Victorian heritage
has done.
It appears that it is time that we deal realistically with adolescent
sexuality
and recognize that experimentations and sexual play should be accepted
to a
greater degree.CONCLUSIONS
literature on what happens to the adolescent who was
involved with a pederast when he (the adolescent) becomes an adult is
almost
nonexistent. What has been written on the subject is based upon opinion.
Laws
have been passed on the basis of what is thought rather than known to be
good
for the developing males.
cases have been presented where reasonably accurate records
have been kept over a period of 10 to 30 years on the same individuals.
These
individuals were involved as adolescents in lengthy sexual affairs
adult males. There is no evidence in these cases that such
involvement on the part of adolescents had lasting effects such as
developing
homosexuality or that these individuals suffered deleterious effects
from such
relationships.
sample was drawn from a pool of approximately 200 cases
where boys had been involved with older males sexually, spanning a
period of 30
years. Cases reported here were chosen because of more complete
follow-up data
which introduces unknown bias. Data on other cases, while less complete,
point
in the same general direction. There are adolescent males who are
involved with
older males in our society in sexual relationships that are mutually
satisfactory. It further appears that such involvements may be a part of
adolescent sex play and should be treated as such by our society. Much
research
needs to be done in this area so that laws governing sexual activity may
be
brought more in line with reality.